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Tips for a Successful Reading

Your loved ones welcome the opportunity to connect with you and deliver messages of love and healing. They want you to know they are still connected; they haven’t left you because they have transitioned to the Spiritual Realm and are in the Divine Light.

Mediumship readings are a beautiful experience. Your loved ones will infuse me with their personalities, thoughts, and emotions that were intrinsic to them here in the physical world. This is so you can validate that it is them! If they have a boisterous personality here, then they will be boisterous also when they connect. There is never any judgment for us here; readings are filled with love, laughter, forgiveness, and peace.

What is communicated is unique to each reading, but a session usually begins with me seeing what the person looked like, usually about the age they passed. Although often, once we acknowledge who the energy is, they will show themselves as healthy and vibrant, so you know how it is for them in the Spiritual Realm. Names sometimes come through clearly; other times, they might be the first initial. Often they will tell me how they passed by, making my body feel the pain and/or illness they had before departing. Or even a long-term illness, such as diabetes or Alzheimer’s. This is all to acknowledge the specific details of the person’s energy.

Once we validate who the spirit energy is, communication is even stronger. Be open to whatever comes through! Sometimes it is about recent times; other times, they will talk about an event or time from many years past. It is amazingly detailed and specific, and sometimes it is so buried in your memory that you really have to think about it! But once you get the ‘Aha! I know what they are talking about!’ moment, it is a beautiful connection. That is why it is very important not to say, “No, I don’t know what that is or what they are talking about.” Negative energy might make communication difficult. If that is the case, please say something to the effect of “I don’t recall that right now” or “I'll have to think about that." More often than not, whatever came through that you didn't recognize will more than likely make sense later in the reading or even after your reading is completed.

They will even tell me about something that has happened in your life since their passing. This is so you know their spirit was with you at that moment! Maybe even future events will make sense to you later.

I can't guarantee who will come through, so please be open to whoever is there. It is absolutely fine to want to hear from a particular person; just keep an open mind. Usually, clients do connect with whom they want to. Just be prepared for other family and friends also.

If you do not recognize or understand something I convey, please do not just say "No." Please say something to the effect of "I’m not sure right now" or "I don’t recall right now." That will alleviate negative energy, which can disrupt the session. Most often, it will make sense later in the reading or even after the reading.

Relax, naturally. Please don’t have a glass of wine before or something else of that nature. It will slow and/or stop the positive energy flow.

Please do not dictate or attempt to run the session. Spirit is in charge of that.

Think about your loved ones and any questions before your session. This will facilitate your connecting with whomever you want.

I certainly understand that life happens, but please be timely. I’ve been meditating just for you! If you are scheduled for a phone session, make sure you are in a quiet spot with no interruptions.

A few repeats, but a great source for even more helpful tips.